GUIDED AUTHENTIC SPEED RELATING FUN!

Dynamic Conscious Communication and Connection Practices through the Tantra Lens.

PLAY,  LEARN, & CONNECT

JOIN US for the Ultimate Authentic Speed Relating Event for Singles & Couples.

How does this work ?

Good question! The Ultimate Play & Conscious Connection Challenge for everyone is a dynamic learning workshop event that raises the bar in authentic relating, communication and connection skills!

Improving your conscious connection skills to a higher level with fun, quick, & enlightening learning practices.​

Embracing the authentic connection of presence, polarity, and energy with each practice. Empowering your self-awareness and sovereignty.

Giving you the comfort levels to have interesting and colourful conversations in your everyday life with people you know and people you want to know.

Dare to be adventurous and join us for an ultimate play & conscious connection challenge!

I loved the Tantralicious workshop.  The exercises were safe and creative, not to mention fun and connecting.  Viktoria is a great facilitator and living example of what Tantra is all about.  Thank you for the delicious experience!
Jen

It was good practice to honestly verbalize what I wanted, and I can see how important that is to intimacy. 

Mike

The Benefits:

  • You are more self-aware and present.

  • You become a better friend and partner.

  • You are more compassionate and kind.

  • You have a better sense of empathy.

  • You take better care of yourself.

  • You are less stressed.

  • You are a better communicator. 

  • You learn how to say “no.”

  • You start trusting people more.

  • You are less angry and resentful.

  • You are clear about your “yes.”

  • You do things you actually want to do.

  • You become a more understanding person.

  • You build confidence to deeply connect.
  • You learn how to support a partner at their pace and comfort.
  • You strengthen your awareness of what you enjoy.
  • You strengthen your awareness of what your partner enjoys

How is this guided ?​

You will be guided step-by-step into a wide range of connection and authentic relating exercises that engage you in a safe and playful way. Giving you the practice time to, always, be true to yourself.

The Tantralicious or Kinkalicious: Authentic Speed Relating Play & Conscious Connection Challenge is a dynamic learning workshop event that raises the bar in authentic relating, communication skills and conscious loving!

 

What you will experience:

  • how to identify your in-the-moment needs
  • how to ask for and negotiate your desires
  • how to bring yourself into full presence to connect
  • how to compassionately & consciously relate and connect
  • paired connection in rotation  or you can stay with your partner with guided practices (communication, eye-gazing, touch, sensations, polarity play, movement, role play, improvisation and sharing of what you notice within you)

 

SIDE EFFECTS:

may include a clear knowing of what your boundaries are, language to articulate your needs and desires and a change from awkward to confident in connecting with repeated play.

Feelings of energized and refreshed and have powerful tantric tools to enhance your life and relationships.

 

WHO IS THIS FOR?

This is for single and partnered people who seek to enjoy the above side effects.

    Tantra Teaches…

    Tantra teaches us to bring awareness to the present moment with feelings and sensations. Allowing us to open our whole being to be touched by life and/or the person we choose to connect with.

    In today’s busy world it’s so rare to pause, quite the mind, feel the body, and feel the heart and its cravings.

      You will experience expanded possibilities for relating to another person in a more profound way. You come away with greater confidence in your ability to know and express yourself. Shift your perspective on what a healthy and playful relationship can feel and look like. Dare to be Adventurous in your shared life learning!​

      This is a social event, open to everyone (singles & couples). The Intention is to bring people together, to have fun, share love, compassion, and joy!

      I really loved this session it was great to experience a different way to connect with another person.

      Dion

      This was a beautiful and affirming experience of deepening connection with my partner. We learned something new about each other tonight.

      Audra

       Enjoy…

      Enjoy a worthwhile, dynamic, fun and playful workshop event that will leave you feeling nourished, open-hearted and excited to be in connection with life!

       

       

      Please Note:

      This is a Fragrance Free event. No cologne perfume or any other synthetic made fragrance. Exception: Essential oil dabs.

      Who attends?

      Singles and couples/partners who attend Tanralicious or Kinkalicious events are curious and seeking to become more self-aware while enjoying new and familiar faces in an authentic and conscious community. Socialize and grow at the same time!

      Participants say that these events have improved their communication skills, giving them confidence to move away from previous challenges and the awkwardness that can be experienced meeting and connecting with people.​

      I truly enjoyed the event.

      Usually I am a [giver] but opted to be a [receiver] during the exercises. A safe environment was provided that allowed me to be open to explore this side of myself. Each activity had us check in with our partner ensuring we were grounded and ready to engage, modify or discuss the activity as well as check each other’s boundaries.

      The exercises progressed from vanilla to grey over the evening. You know it was good fun when 2 hours felt like 15 minutes. By the end of the exercises my emotional and energy levels were way up.

      Looking forward to  Level 2.

      Rob

      Warm Welcome to ALL!

      Partners/Couples and 2 Friends:  Play & Connect Challenge learn and play workshop is for people looking to have a date night as a way to get closer or to stay closer – intimate, connected, bring back that spark, but seriously how? 

      This is why the Play & Connect Challenge workshop is here! A cost appropriate outing where you will have something to talk about for years. You will be inspired with new ideas to spark your relationship. Including a space where challenging moments in a relationship have support and you can practice communication.

      Singles: Play & Connect Challenge learning workshop is the perfect way to discover, explore and practice your intimacy skills before you meet the right person. Single and just want something to do?

      Not looking for a relationship but want to get out and meet people. Join us and learn how to review and vet suitors, connect and build relating and communication skills! Bonus!

      How many people attend?

      Limited to 12-28 participants based on venue size. 

      ​Arrival

      Please arrive on time!​What to wear?

      ​Online/InPerson: Dress to impress and express yourself with colourful and textured attire, like socks, scarf, jewellery, shirt, pants, lipstick hue, etc.  Wear comfortable clothing with layers as we cannot control the room temperature for everyone. Please note we sometimes sit on yoga mats.

      Super Important Note: This is a fragrance-free event space due to people’s sensitivities and allergies. No synthetic strong aromatic colognes, perfumes, moisturizers, deodorant, detergent, fabric softner, etc. You are welcome to put on a “dab” of essential oil. Please note you will be respectfully asked to leave if you have a strong scent and sadly, your ticket will not be refunded.

      What to bring?

      • ​Yoga mat OR Blanket to sit on
      • Open heart and mind.
      • Breath freshner

      Space is limited (max 20 peeps). Save your spot today!

      The Origin Story

      The Ultimate Play & Conscious Connection Challenge (Tantralicious & Kinkalicious) is a passionate project that came together through the creative expression of the dynamic playfulloving team (Viktoria and associates).

      Recognizing and identifying with clients, and personal experience that people are in: emotional pain; struggling; challenged by awkward social relating and lack of communication skills; and most importantly, unable to be fully present. Technology has not necessarily contributed to greater intimacy. It is the opposite. It has created distance and contraction within. You are not alone.​

      From this great need for deeper intimacy and genuine connection, the inspirational spark for learning events with a safe and fun container to support you and people like you. To show up fully, authentically, and be consciously present. We know that everyone has the ability to have the vibrant, healthy, and playful loving intimacy they desire.

      This passion for greater intimacy helped in designing simple, quick and playful learning events. To help you integrate new relating and communication skills into your heart, body and mind in a deliciously fun way!​

      Viktoria is the founder and Bodacious Boss Babe of www.playfulloving.com and your workshop guide. She is a Holistic Love & Intimacy Specialist: Communication, Playfulness, Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach, Counsellor & Confidante. For 15+ years, Viktoria has guided, trained and mentored individuals and couples. She is dedicated to creating safe and nurturing spaces for transformation, fun learning experiences, and practical guidelines for your success.

      This is a creative new style of conscious relating. Using guided learning practices that help you quickly improve relationship and communication skills, through safe and playful exercises that support participants to be their best and most genuine selves.

      The Invitation

      “You are invited to integrate my approach which is based on being curious, mindfully self-aware, and to honour, respect and trust yourself first and foremost. This way you are always within your boundaries of safety, consent and comfort in all areas of your life.” – Viktoria

      Reviews

      I have been to Tantra courses for alot of money. This was worth more. And I will add more flowers in my life
      Brandon

      Loved the reminder of how to connect with my partner from the heart. Thank you!
      Eric & Kelly

      I love it was fun. When I left I was playful and childlike. Thank you for having these lovely workshop.
      Diane

      I realized that this event brings heartfelt connection in a time of disconnection. Gratitude!
      Rosie

      Enjoyed learning giving into my feelings (letting go of control).
      LM

      Great experience. Figured out that I do tend to follow because I feel more comfortable. I need to embrace being more of a leader!
      Dimitra

      To be able to epress my desires by performing them with my partner.
      Nathan

      First of all, I need to thank Viktoria for guiding us through this incredible journey. It was the first time I have ever attended a session like this and I was excited, eager and nervous all at the same time. We were lucky enough to have a smaller, intimate group session where we were able to be open and vulnerable and build a connection with one another. I loved that we got to reflect and express how we felt between each activity. Viktoria was incredible in guiding us and stimulating us in this truly riveting journey of self-discovery. After the session my mind was truly scrambled (in a good way) with various thoughts and feelings racing through my brain. I will definitely be returning for her future sessions.
      Ash

      A different experience for me being paired up with my partner for all the interesting exercises, building more connection with her & identifying gaps to work on. And she does not want to be a princess.

      Chris

      Viktoria’s facilitation created a safe space to explore deeper parts of myself and my connection with others.

      Christina

      Many times my intitial response was “Oh god, I don’t think I can be/do that.” And then I chose to go ahead and do it anyway. To my surprise, I was better at the game than expected and I had more fun once I was “in it”. Super fun and empowering.

      J.T.

      As a life-long giver, I never had the opportunity to communicate how I want to be pleased.  Dare to be Adventurous, has given me the ability to speak about my desires and pleasures. Thank you Viktoria.

      Daniel

      These exercises make you more open and authentic, getting you closer to your true self.

      The Memon

      Viktoria embodies what she teaches. This enables everyone to feel connected & safe. The practice for me was very aligned and affirming for how I live my life. I highly recommend this workshop event (and Viktoria) to everyone.

      Matty

      It was affirming, because I like people to be authentic. Every exercise had a meaning of who I am. Very powerful!

      Mila

      It was fun to play and connect in so many different ways with so many different people. Thank you for making such an easeful space to connect.

      Em

      A safe and fun environment was created where we were guided through an evening of really enjoyable dark tantra exercises similar to speed dates.  Before starting each exercise, you and your partner set personal limits and boundaries.  This allowed you to make a real connection with your partner. The evening was an enjoyable way to meet new people.

      Thank you for hosting such an enjoyable evening. Looking forward to future events.
      Heart to heart hugs.

      Jim B

      Loved meeting different people and had the opportunity to discuss and experience level 1 [exercises of relating] with various personalities. With each new partner and activity, the anticipation was as tantalizing as the act of doing them. I learned much about myself and was able to breakthrough my comfort zone and discovered my boundaries. Thank you 

      Belinda

      I enjoyed connecting with lots of different people, feeling their energy and interacting with them.  It was a safe, yet interesting and stimulating environment.

      Thanks Viktoria!

      Marianne

      Great new tools to connect with my wife. And doing something different with my husband was great! 

      A & A

      I didn’t know I could 100% let loose and give into the experience fully. Interesting!!

      Steph

      To be touched with care and love was wonderful. To be seen and understood was magical.

      Susan

      I was really anxious going into this. I ended up being grounded and I found some clarity about my own anxiety. What my trust issues are and what I need to feel safe.

      Pauline

      Re-discovering a spiritual side of me I had neglected for far too long. There is more than just science and logic. You helped me remember that. A re-awakening. Thank you.
      Chris

      “Let go of control.”

      D

      It was an amazing evening. I discovered new interesting things about my receiver side. I had so much fun with ties. I am looking forward to going to the next workshop, so I could learn more things about myself and how to connect with others. I highly recommend this workshop to others. Learning through play is the best learning experience.
      Mila

      Being a natural giver I learned that I tend to take charge of situations at the detrement of meeting my own needs. Often not even knowing what those are. Opening up about this through play and conversation lead to this discovery.

      O.W.

      It was a unique opportunity to connect with people at different levels. Realizing, more real life experiences like this are needed. Thank you Viktoria for this memorable experience.

      Constantine

      I love the opportunty to connect with other humans in openess and authenticity.

      Sara

      It was enlightening and empowerig. It was nice to learn to establish boundaries within my comfort zone.

      Ry2814

      I really loved connecting with others in-person again. Doing authentic communication and touch exercises.  Practicing asking, how and what I want and giving within other people’s boundaries.

      Kevin

      This course helped me realize a-lot of things about myself and how I love touch and I feel challenged with the communication or speaking exercises.  The energy of the group was amazing, respectful and magical. Thanks for organizing Viktoria!

      A.S.

      In the path of self knowledge and experience like this just reaffirms the fact that connection, humanity & kindness will always open doors & windows anywhere, any how… Thanks!

      Ana

      Whatever nerves I had about trying a [Dare to be Adventurous event] were quickly alleviated by Viktoria’s skillful facilitation of this event. She was thoughtful and engaging and created a safe space for the group to really dive in. Just an amazing experience that allowed me to learn alot about myself in a fun and dynamic way. I can’t wait to engage in more beautiful and healing workshop experiences. Thank you for a delicious experience, see you soon.

      Lisa M

      Thank you for a wonderful event. It was good to see you again. Loved the learning. I feel more confident in asking for what I want in a relationship as well as in intimate play.

      Until next time! Gracefully,

      Voss

      I liked that I could experiment in a safe regulated space it felt nice to have someone other than my lover run a feather over my face and not feel like I am being unfaithful.  It was good to know I can feel pleasure with some one else.

      Clarisse

      Easy activities that were modifiable with different energetic bodies – thumbs up!

      Just overall good fun

      Michelle

      A great way for me to identify my role in intimate relationship dynamics, all done in a fun, friendly and safe environment. Two thumbs up!  Look forward to the next one.

      Sharon

      As a visitor to Toronto, I was looking and in need of human connection in a safe space. And that is what was gifted. Thank you
      Cecilia

      I realized that being fully present with one thing and to really focus my senses in this one experience which trumps the many things. Thank you.
      Reb

      I echo the well balance of intensity and lightness of the exercises. Made me see myself authentically in every moment. And I noticed I wished to go deeper with my emotional connection.
      Jeff

      It indeed was a very healthy way to take some time off the chaos to find the peace in me.
      Anthony

      Enjoyed the experience! Exercises were fun and insightful at the same time. Thank you!
      A

      I discovered that I may have some trust issues trappped in my body. 
      Silver Sword Warrior

      Thank-you Viktoria for being there to help me with my journey of self discovery and awareness. I found the Dare To Be Adventurous Event to be quite an eye opener. I felt safe in the environment to open myself to new possibilities. It will still be a work in progress but I look forward to your next event. The energy in the room was one that brought peace, acceptance and caring into place. Learning to communicate freely and more effectively is one of my goals and also to trust my own instincts again. Therefore, your guidance and expertise is most appreciated.  With kindest regards
      Lisa

      I highly recommend Viktoria’s evenings! They are always exciting and with a sense of adventure! Always a great time, never a dull moment, and always something surprising and new to learn! I’ve done many wonderful learning and socializing and playing sessions led by Viktoria! She’s the bomb!

      Clarisse

      As always, absolutely love Viktoria’s workshops /activities, it’s fabulous, the space she creates and holds for each one of us. Each and everytime! Thank you so very much for all of it xxx 

      Naureen

      I realized that it’s okay to change your mind. I practiced introspection. It was enlightening. Being a receiver when I’m naturally a giver was eye-opening.  I realized I felt uncomfortable being observed and seen. Thank you Viktoria. This was wonderful & playful.

      Utopia

      It was affirming, because I like people to be authentic. Every exercise had a meaning of who I am. Very powerful!

      Mila

      In the path of self knowledge and experience like this just reaffirms the fact that connection, humanity & kindness will always open doors & windows anywhere, any how… Thanks!

      Ana

      Viktoria has created a beautiful and safe experience for people to explore the world of tantra and kink in a loving and playful environment. 

      We were able to connect with others within our own comfort zones through engagement or by simply discussing different topics. This event allowed us to reconnect with our natural loving state and to play within our boundaries.

      I was able to experience feelings of love, empathy and laughter with strangers who offered the same level of respect and curiosity towards myself.

      Thank you! You are creating important community!

      Mackenzie

      I truly enjoyed the event.

      Usually I am a [giver] but opted to be a [receiver] during the exercises. A safe environment was provided that allowed me to be open to explore this side of myself. Each activity had us check in with our partner ensuring we were grounded and ready to engage, modify or discuss the activity as well as check each other’s boundaries.

      The exercises progressed from vanilla to grey over the evening. You know it was good fun when 2 hours felt like 15 minutes. By the end of the exercises my emotional and energy levels were way up.

      Looking forward to  Level 2.

      Rob

      Viktoria created an incredibly safe environment. She does a great deal of work to make everyone involved have a safe and good environment. I will happily return.

      Thank you for a wonderful experience last night!

      Wes

      Bring on level 2!! 

      I was pleasantly surprised by your event – I like how it made me feel vulnerable, actually!

      Thank You!
      xo

      Laura

      Cancellation and Refund Policy

      We know a lot can happen between now and the event. When you cancel 48 hours prior to the event date by email or telephone you will be refunded the full amount. This graciously invites someone on the waitlist to attend. Sadly, we are not able to refund your ticket under 48 hours cancellation due to space rental costs.

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