Inspired by my personal journey. I have created a supportive hand-held epic odyssey into the dark and back into the light experience of courage and confidence. Empowering you to get the life, love and intimacy you desire.
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I invite you to close your eyes and imagine what it’s like to be in a warm, playful loving, intimate relationship. Can you picture what it’s like to feel totally at ease with expressing your desires and needs. To feel supported and connected at the deepest levels?

Okay, now open your eyes. Is this your reality? If it is, I’m so happy for you. If it’s not, then I want you to know you’re not alone.

So many people feel awkward and uncomfortable in their intimate relationships. They don’t know how to ask for what they want and need without feeling afraid, guilty or ashamed. They’re left feeling lonely and disconnected, robbing themselves of joyful intimacy.

Let’s take a closer look at the word “Intimacy”. To me it means “into-me-see”. You see, the key to real intimacy is first confidently connecting with yourself, and releasing the past hurts and limiting beliefs that hold you back.

When you do that, you can live your life in technicolour and surround sound — with passion and purpose. You create a life of vibrant intimacy, personally and partnered.

My own intimacy journey has elements of ugly to awesome. Growing up in a strict Greek orthodox family I was disciplined in the art of heightened awareness and self-sacrificing service. My mother’s words were heard: “if you don’t cook, clean and take care of your family, when you get married your husband will kick you out.”

As a result, I left myself on the back burner, putting others before me. I was forced into an arranged marriage at the age of 18, and never really got to know who I was. At the same time, I experienced a variety of physical abusive and emotional traumas at the hands of people who are defined as close and a variety of misguided partners. I felt incredibly alone and disconnected.


To survive, my coping mechanism led me to create a protective armour around my heart. And in an effort to feel safe, my warrior side emerged and I became more masculine. I went through life feeling numb and disconnected, unable to feel and seek self-care. Not letting anyone into my heart and not fully living my life. 

Years passed, and I felt lost and tired of holding up my protective shield. My heart felt heavy and numb. Frustrated and struggling, I felt the need to breathe with deep breaths. I had a burning desire to live life fully  — in technicolour and surround sound. And so I began my healing and self-empowerment journey.

Finally, druing my epic odyssey of personal healing I realized my body, heart and mind must heal as a holistic system. I learned how to feel connected and empowered with myself. I nourished and cultivated my an authentic confidence. Bringing forward my passion, curiosity, creativity, love of life, joy of laughter and playful loving intimacy.

You too can get the vibrant life, love and intimacy you desire. You can bring back the balance of playfulness, curiosity, and fun on your empowerment journey.

My heartfelt firm, yet gentle guidance is standing by and ready to walk with you on your personal and partnered odyssey.

Your first step is to schedule your complimentary Discovery Session. I’ll hear your story, challenges and concerns with an open mind and heart. And I”ll share some recommendations you can put in place immediately. You’ll also gain a better sense of how we can work together and how I can best support you and your partner.

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Your Next Step

Click the button below to schedule your complimentary 15 minute Discovery Session.

I look forward to speaking with you soon!

Our Approach

To be mindfully aware and always within my boundaries of safety, consent and comfort levels with respect, honour and trust with myself, first and foremost and then reciprocally with others.

Empowering your personal and partnered intimacy.

Empowering your intimacy with confidence, joy, and passion for life. That path of honouring myself can be yours as well. A journey with transformational counselling, embodied yoga, ancient wisdom of Daoist and Tantra traditions of healing and empowerment.

Inspired by my journey. I have created a supportive, hand-held odyssey where I walk with you into the dark and back into the light with courage and confidence. Giving you the ability to creatively connect to a vibrant life of self-empowered love and the intimacy you desire.

What does intimacy coaching look like?

The self-empowered intimacy coaching and counselling sessions I engage with you integrate the best aspects of the new age science, psycholgogy and ancient wisdom:

My intimacy coaching has a self-empowerment approach that includes:

  • guidance + support

  • confidence building skills
  • safe space + intention setting

  • healthy boundary setting

  • self-empowerment practices
  • ancient wisdom + modern science

  • language expression

  • psycho-biology

  • holistic chi kung massage

  • Bondassage or Elysium massage
  • anatomy knowledge + anatomy of arousal

  • reference readings + home work

  • natural personal pleasure practices

  • guided + personal self-healing practices

Along with…

  • compassionate communication

  • emotional connection skills

  • body touch awareness + skills

  • naughty to sacred and the depths in between skills

    Nourishing, cultivating and empowering your confidence, joy and passion for life, love and intimacy. 
    Read more through some of the testimonials from clients.

Education and Training


Lifespace Transformational Counselling

Life Coach – Certified Coaches Federation (CCF)

Hatha & Laya Yoga Teacher RYT200
Yoga Alliance Member

Tantra Teacher {Vajrayana} Buddhist
Lama Tashi, Kauai Dharma Centre

Bondassage and Elysium Practitioner /Teacher /Trainer

Trauma Sensitive Yoga Teacher Training,
Brendon Abram + Living in the Self

Discovery Method of Teaching Certification

Human Relations Major & Psychology Minor, Concordia U

Psycho~Biological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT)

Sex Therapy Intensive Certificate, U of Guelph

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Viktoria is an Intimacy Coach for Men, Women and Couples located in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.

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