My Journey

Inspired by my journey. I have created a supportive, hand-held, walk with you into the dark and back into the light journey with courage and confidence. Giving you the ability to creatively connect to a vibrant life of self-empowered love and the intimacy you desire.
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Do you feel that your struggling with intimacy in your relationship, or its been a pattern throughout your relationships?

Feeling lonely and depressed with and without a partner. The rabbit hole of frustration, awkwardness, and discomfort with any level of intimacy with yourself is challenging. Not clear on how to ask for what you desire without feelings of fear, guilt and shame.

You see yourself living, loving and sharing intimacy in a numb and disconnected with a partner and with yourself. Your heart has too many protective coping mechanisms that you are unsure of how to live a techni-colour textured and surround sound life. A life of vibrant intimacy with or without a partner.

A closer look at the word “Intimacy”. To me it means “into me see”. The path of seeing into yourself. Empowering you to connect with confidence to your intimacy first. Then the rest of life’s intimate moments, experiences and relationships are a piece of cake.

My personal empowerment journey has ugly to awesome elements which kept me from folding within myself and into the shadows of society.

Growing up in strict Greek orthodox family I was disciplined in the art of heightened awareness. “if you don’t cook, clean and take care of your family, when you get married your husband will kick you out.” The family training of service did not prepare me for the variety of physical, emotional and energetic traumas with people who were identified as family and friends and the most profound being my arranged marriage at the age of 18 to an abusive partner.

My survival coping mechanism turned up the volume on my sense of numbness and fence layers around my heart. Not fully living any more. My awareness for safety was heightened, and my warrior side emerged to protect myself. I became more masculine and my ability to feel and seek self-care was diminished.

I was tired of holding up my protective shield and feeling numb. Frustrated and struggling I felt a grasping need to breathe with deep breaths. A burning desire to have the ripple effect of living fully, in techni-colour textures and surround sound. 

As a result the connection was made! My body, heart and mind must heal as a holistic system. Giving me the gift becoming connected with confidence to myself. Finally, with bold confidence I was able to live, love, laugh and have the intimacy I desire.  

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My Approach

To be mindfully aware and always within my boundaries of safety, consent and comfort levels with respect, honour and trust with myself, first and foremost and then reciprocally with others.

Empowering your confidence, intimacy and joy.

That path of honouring myself can be yours as well. A journey with transformational counselling, embodied yoga, Daoist and Tantra traditions of healing and empowerment.

Inspired by my journey. I have created a supportive, hand-held, walk with you into the dark and back into the light journey with courage and confidence. Giving you the ability to creatively connect to a vibrant life of self-empowered love and the intimacy you desire.

What does intimacy coaching look like?

The self-empowered intimacy coaching and counselling sessions draw upon and integrate the best aspects of the new age science and ancient methodologies:

My intimacy coaching has a self-empowerment approach that includes:

  • guidance

  • support

  • safe space setting

  • intention setting

  • open dialogue

  • boundary setting

  • theory and science

  • ancient wisdom

  • modern science
  • language expression

  • psycho-biology

  • chi kung therapy

  • anatomy knowledge

  • reference readings

  • home work

  • personal self-care approaches

  • self-empowerment practices

  • natural self-intimacy practices

  • guided self-healing practices

  • self-healing practices

Along with…

  • ompassionate communication

  • emotionally conscious connection

  • mindful body awareness

  • healing from within

  • self-awakening by your design

  • walking with you on your journey

Nourishing your passion for love, life and intimacy. Connecting you to your natural power, your true essence, your playfulness, your purpose and your joy with respect, honour, and compassion. Read more through some of the testimonials from my clients.

My Education and Training


Lifespace Transformational Counselling

Discovery Method of Teaching Certification

Hatha & Laya Yoga Teacher RYT200
Yoga Alliance Member

Human Relations Major & Psychology Minor, Concordia U

Life Coach – Certified Coaches Federation (CCF)

Psycho~Biological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT)

Tibetan Tantra Practitioner/Teacher Certification

Sex Therapy Intensive Certificate, U of Guelph

Trauma Sensitive Yoga Teacher Training,
Brendon Abram + Living in the Self

My Mentors and Colleagues




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