Tantra for Men

Private Program In-Person (Toronto) or Online

Men’s Sacred Alchemy Tantra Program

Imagine building or rebuilding your confidence and reclaiming your feminine flow and power. So you can have the happy, healthy, deep connection & intimacy you desire.

And help heal both the feminine and masculine for a more awesome world of connection where you can authentically live, love, and laugh!

Welcome to your MODERN Masculine connection & empowerment zone.

I’m Viktoria. Your Tantra science geek, catalyst of change and holistic intimacy guide. I’m here to guide you on a journey of self-discovery, self exploration and self-acceptance. Where you will awaken your body, heart and mind shed the uncertainty, fear, anxiety, shame and trauma. So you can connect to your personal passions, strengths and expression of intimacy. Revel in your own playful loving confidence!


“I dont feel desired or supported by my partner. I don’t know when is a good time to be intimate. To laugh, and have fun without worrying about stepping on egg shells with a woman. I want to be seen and heard. Like it was at the beginning of our courtship. Maybe I just need to work on my body, language, my looks, my wardrobe, how I smell, to be more attractive or sexier like those magazines say.” 

“I’m SO frustrated with dating women!! It feels like there are no good women out there. I feel like giving up. I just want to stay in my man cave and watch endless sports or leave the area for a long drive or hike or dive into some less desirable activities that leave me empty inside.” 

“I’m frustrated and angry and tired of trying to get my needs and desires met with women. Why do I become a broken record go silent or become a manipulator to get what I want?! Aaaagh! Why can’t it just be simple?? It feels like work. I feel exhausted and just soooo tired! Why is it so much work?!” 

I felt similarly in the past with myself and so did my past partners. We were both beyond frustrated, stuck, angry, resentful and blocked. Giving each other the silent treatment. We both were seeking to move beyond the inner dialogue of questions, limiting beliefs and past history that held us back.

Sad to say, most men feel this way individually and within a relationship.

I’ve been in your shoes and made the conscious decision to change and empower myself with knowledege, wisdom and confidence – So I can connect to my version of fun, adventure, sacredness, and playful loving intimacy.

Through my own journey of exploration, learning and my 15+ years of teaching, I came to discover I can live my life as I desire with wonder and curiousity in surround sound and techni-colour.

I believe you too can attain the sacred and playful loving intimacy as I have.

Can you relate to any of these?

  • I feel stuck and afraid to admit to myself or tell my parter what I desire
  • I’ve been hurt from past relationships and I want to move on
  • I’m self-conscious of my body and I am pre-occupied with porn
  • I’m not sure how to start with being in my masculine polarity
  • I know there is more to sex, but have never had the space to ask those ’embarassing’ questions

The majority of the men I work with begin with these challenges.

I want you to know, you’re not alone.

I am excited to share how you can overcome these blocks and to answer your burning questions. And to see how I can best support you!

Have you realized the intimacy blocks in your life show up as feelings of emptiness, frustration, anxiety, stress, addiction, insecurity, depression and disconnection. 

BENEFITS of Tantra:

  • Remove /Release body, mind and heart blocks
  • Awaken your confidence, passion, purpose and potential
  • Connect to your masculine power and mastery
  • Activate your self-love and express, receive and give love
  • Master your body and energy connection
  • Connect, extend, and master your body and its pleasure possibilities
  • Authentically communicate your needs and desires
  • Cultivate greater abundance in all areas of your life
  • Create the vibrant and healthy intimacy you desire
  • Deepen and ehnance your connection in your relationships
  • Become a confident lover in and out of the bedroom

Client Love

I looked forward to every session ...

“Tantra 4 Men was everything I wanted and and both nothing and more than I expected. In addition to ancient tantric practises, Viktoria seamlessly wove in modern scientific findings and emotional and communication techniques.

All of these tools gave me a multitude of ways to better understand and communicate with myself and my partner. I looked forward to every session; my only complaint was that it had to end.”


I am a much calmer and tuned in ...

“Thank you for your awesome coaching and guidance, the Tantra for Men program exceeded my expectation and I took from it a treasure trove of information enabling me to better understand myself and my surrounding. I can positively say that once I started to incorporate the practice into my daily routine, I am a much calmer and tuned in person than what I was before.

Your style of coaching was easy to understand and fun. Keep up the good work, we need people like you.

Once again thank you so much for creating this group.”


Insightful and thought provoking ...

“Thank you Viktoria for sharing your time, space and wisdom. Insightful and thought provoking! She is an outstanding communicator and brings the group together creating synergy and incredible value! I learned so much from this session both in terms on how to communicate my intentions better and more importantly in the value of using a collaborative approach in co-creating great experiences!

Viktoria created and led a wonderful learning and sharing experience. The group brought a diverse and complimentary range of seekers that made the event special and rewarding. I feel blessed for having had this opportunity and look forward to my next experience with Viktoria. Namaste”


The 5 Step Pathway

The Sacred Loving Tantra mens foundational program is a Modern Masculine journey I’ve created for you. Based on 4,000+ year old ancient wisdom.  A hybrid richness from the globral Tantra cultures of Classical Hindu, Tibetan Buddhist, Daoist/Taoist (Chinese), Native Indian Quodoushka and Shamanic practices and science.

Your program focuses on embodied practices, knowledge and wisdom of self-discovery, awakening, healing, and celebration.

Learn the modern science and ancient wisdom practices that will teach you releasing and healing meditations for your mind, body and heart. Fine tune your body awareness and boundaries. Allow your body to confidently express itself through movement and energy practices. Cultivate fierce self-love and conscious compassionate communication skills. Learn how to de-armour your body of numbness and pain with body massage, and more.

The 5 Step Sacred Loving Tantra focus:

  • knowledge and wisdom of sacred sensuality and sexuality;
  • acceptance, accountability and responsibility
  • compassionate communication skills
  • self-discovery, self-exploration and self-mastery
  • sensual and sexual inner awakening
  • inner and outer healing of mind, heart, & body
  • emotional connection with adoration and celebration

Learn to accept, love and care for yourself. Release states of frustration, anxiety, anger, depression, sadness, and other blocks that hold you back. Learn and allow yourself to be more authentic and confident. Power~Purpose~Connection

You will be learning practices and skills of:

  • male and female anatomy
  • sexual de-armoring mans body massage
  • 8+ kinds of orgasms just for men
  • Tibetan 5 Element meditation with visualization and sound
  • learning how to communicate with those you love
  • polarity movement with your body and energy
  • expand and extend your orgasmic state with healing benefits
  • and SO much more

Step 1: Mind

  • Discover how to clear any mental blocks that keep you from feeling pleasure
  • Learn how to connect to a deeper level of intimacy with yourself and partner
  • Quiet the monkey mind that stops you from enjoying sex and being fully present in your life
  • Learn how to confidently release trapped feelings of fear, guilt, and shame

Step 2: Heart

  • Learn to listen to your heart and express and feel more powerful
  • Learn to start loving and accepting yourself and body
  • Discover new breathing techniques to calm, soothe and bring new energy to your body
  • Understand your love languages and how we use these to communicate
  • Learn how to be there for your partner and others and create a safe space for sharing

Step 3: Body 

  • Discover how to move your body in yoga positions not taught in your typical class
  • Learn to move your body allowing energy to move throughout your system
  • Practice feeling into your feminine versus your masculine polarity and how that benefits you
  • Experience the healing touch of the Holistic Chi Kung massage. Body balancing from within.
  • Learn how to self-massage your body to release numbness/pain while returning sensation

Step 4: Energy 

  • Learn what setting an intention is and how it relates to all aspects in your life
  • Learn tips, techniques and tools to enhance your sexual pleasure by yourself and with your partner
  • Learn how to give and receive pleasure unconditionally with yourself and your partner
  • Learn to harness and move energy for the purpose of healing your body, heart and mind.

Step 5: Celebration

  • Learn how ritual with intention is key to honouring yourelf and loved ones.
  • Learn how acknowledging and appreciating the little things creates an attitude of gratitude so you can live life with greater resiliency.

Your program includes:

Sacred Loving
Tantra Level 1
($2000 CAD value)

Exclusive Private Program

  • 6 x 1.5hr sessions OR 9 x 1hr sessions weekly IN-PERSON (Toronto) or ONLINE
  • BONUS: Complimentary* T.R.E. (Tension/Trauma Release Exercises)
  • Schedule to be determined by both of us (weekday or weekend)
  • each class includes teaching, reference guides, exercises, dialog and sharing

Be guided and share what you have learned. At your comfort level, I invite you to bring back your learnings and observations from the past session and homework as we continue to layer the content. Each session is an opportunity for us to connect, acknowledge explorations, celebrate discoveries and answer questions that have come up for you.

This exclusive private program is a safe container and forum for you to feel comfortable in sharing and learning what you may not normally talk about.

Support &
Home-Play Work

($500 CAD value) 

Support in between sessions

  • E-mail/call Support in between sessions MON_FRI 10am-6pm EST
  • sacred safe space of acceptance for learning, sharing and celebration


Recorded Sessions

  • To review at your pace and comfort level when choosing the on-line option.
  • sacred safe space of acceptance for learning, sharing and celebration.
  • sacred safe space of reclaimation, reconnection, and confidence.

Guides &
($200 CAD value)

Reference Guides & Homework

Have fun practicing your weekly homeplay

Weekly new concepts and practices with home-play assignments to continue your journey.

  • honing your skills as a lover and your pleasure potential
  • exploring the benefits of your awareness and presence techniques
  • practice profound habits and communication skills for successful partnerships

Let’s do this!

Payment Option 1


6 week private 1:1 program

Payment Option 2


6 week private 1:1 program

Cancellation Policy

All sales are final. We know that a lot can happen between now and the program. If you are not able to attend, you can transfer your payment towards your choice of another program within the same year or private coaching.

100% Money Back Gurantee

I stand behind this program with a 100% guarantee. Because I know when you weave the practices into your life, you’ll learn, you’ll be on your way to a confident sensual, sacred sexual woman and man of the 21st century successfully. Also known as a confident kick-ass lover! All you have to do is practice regularly your new and exciting ways of being and work out, shift and transform the blocks with awareness and presence. That’s it. After that, if within 30 days, you honestly believe you didn’t get what you signed up for, email me and I'll gladly refund your money in exchange for your feedback. That’s how much I believe this program will help you.

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